Today's post is from Becky, from Love Everyday Life. I love her for her gratuitous compliments. Kidding. Ok, not really. I do love compliments.
Hi everyone! Becky from Love Everyday Life here. When Shannon emailed me asking if I wanted to guest blog I was positively giddy. I found her blog through her guest room re-design and since then I've been hooked. She's hilarious, the crafts and designs she does are ah-ma-zing, and oh yeah, she's totally an adorable pregnant woman. I love all these things about her but her being pregnant allows me to live vicariously through her because I have a bad case of baby fever.
Hi everyone! Becky from Love Everyday Life here. When Shannon emailed me asking if I wanted to guest blog I was positively giddy. I found her blog through her guest room re-design and since then I've been hooked. She's hilarious, the crafts and designs she does are ah-ma-zing, and oh yeah, she's totally an adorable pregnant woman. I love all these things about her but her being pregnant allows me to live vicariously through her because I have a bad case of baby fever.
I didn't think it would happen to me. In fact, when my husband and I were engaged people would joke about me getting the baby fever after a year or two. I remember being downright offended by the implication that I would desire kids more than anything, and I indignantly informed them it would be at least five years before I even thought about children. Well, almost three years into marriage and I'm honing in on babies everywhere I go. (Ah, how I love being wrong).
I visit this parenting site a couple times a week - in my defense it was to follow Erin and Chrissy there (they stopped blogging for Glamour and I wanted to keep reading their stuff), but since I'm over there I figure I'll read the pregnancy blog as well. (What? I'm learning!) I know who Sophie is, I'm aware of the difference between mucus plugs and bloody show, and when I see fat little baby legs I can almost feel my ovaries aching. (Rolls above the knees? Adorable!) Oh, have I mentioned I'm NOT pregnant?
I can't help it - it's literally like someone flipped a switch and I really have to make an effort to not think about babies or pregnancy. Thank goodness my husband is fabulous and mellow - and he answers my "babe, what do you think of this name?" questions patiently (and with a sense of humor). I wouldn't say he has baby fever, but we've been talking about it more lately so even he will point out babies and little kids to me when we're out. (Going to the grocery store now is quite the ordeal).
It's not the right time for us yet - I know, I know, it'll never be the "right" time, but we're in a teeny tiny apartment (I'm talking 684 square feet people), and we're just getting back on our feet after months of not great job stability due to the economy. But I take comfort in the fact that this isn't just a passing phase - the thought of having a child and watching it grow from a baby to a toddler, to an eight-year old, to a teen, and beyond? It melts my heart.
Our time will come, I know. Until then, I'll live vicariously through the awesome-ness of people like Shannon. (Hope you don't mind).
What about you? Have you ever had (or currently have) baby fever, or is that just not your thing? Anyone else out there like me who swore they'd never be this way and is now eating their words?
8 comments:
Thanks again for letting me guest post Shannon!
I just got married last month, and I'm already sick of people asking when we are going to have babies.
We live in a 900 sqft apartment. One thing at a time, folks. One thing at a time.
LB
Baby crazy is totally cool...I happen to be on the opposite end of the spectrum. In fact, I too, reflected on the old baby battle in my brain.
http://bagladycentral.blogspot.com/2010/05/babies-out-waz.html
Not a plug, I am just too lazy to form my thoughts again!
The fact that I am single prevents me from getting baby fever... BUT - I am around so many pregnant people since I have about 7 friends that are pregnant (2 of which are my bestest friends), so I def look forward to hopefully experiencing it some day!!!
I'm that way too! I used to think "no children"! Now, I'm like, "okay, just one" and want one NOW, and bad. It's so weird! I guess you really can hit an age where nature just takes over!
I have the worst baby fever. I'm sure Mr. Kinne is sick of hearing about it. :)
I'm totally getting there, and I feel you. I didn't think I'd be ready yet (it's been almost 3 years). But, I'd like to be done with school so I don't ever have to leave the house and those chubby thighs. But, once I have my MBA, it's on. ;)
And, I guess it'd be good if we had the house done. You know, so the baby has a place to live. (Small details.)
Aren't cool and calm hubbies the best?
This post is near to my heart. I had baby fever since age 14, but did manage to hold it together to get married and have a baby at 25. Then my second one at 30. I felt done and my husband wanted a vasectomy. We got a vasectomy and I cried my eyes out the whole way home. Two years of BEGGING talked him into a reversal (what an amazing man) and I take my first post vasectomy reversal pregnancy test on the 6th. FINGERS crossed. You can see me walking down the street and smell the baby fever rolling off me (that sounds kind of gross when I read it back.) I wish I had a cure for it, because it would be must easier to not have another one that to have another baby. I just don't know how to turn that part of my brain off.
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